Why Men Experience Anger: 10 Surprising Reasons

Have you ever felt that intense anger where your body starts shaking and your eyes start unconsciously watering? Psychologically, anger is a sign of pain. If you’re angry, it is a response to something causing you pain. 

Compared to women who turn their anger inward and can be bottled up, men tend to express theirs differently. Here are some possible reasons.

1. Social Media Influence

Social media platforms have become so powerful that they can easily evoke outrage and anger from people. From political leanings to triggering content, these platforms are designed with algorithms that are guaranteed to get a reaction from you for the sake of maximum engagement. It’s why men who skim through their feeds are prone to sudden angry outbursts. 

2. High Debt

Consumer debt accumulates around 20% of the United States GDP. Many are either living beyond their means or struggling with the current economic state of the country. Whatever the reason may be, having debts can be stressful, especially when payments are missed. You will feel angry and frustrated whenever you can’t meet your dues. 

3. Effects of Mass Media

Besides social media, mass media also has a similar effect that can invoke a negative reaction from you. On top of the popularity of fake news, media outlets show features and segments that can make you feel bad.

Whether it’s about Karen, who reported an African-American little girl for selling bottled water, or the war between Israel and Hamas, bad news will make you boil in anger at the world.

4. Stress

Everyone seems stressed nowadays, especially after the pandemic. You might feel like you’re in this limbo of a cranky attitude that leaves you bubbling inside with frustration. While on edge, you also tend to easily snap at other people. And it’s actually the better option rather than bottling your anger until you blow up. 

5. No Savings & Investments

One of the things that many people don’t have today is financial security. Without savings or investments to back you up when all else fails, it can make you feel uneasy and anxious. When things don’t go your way, everything may collapse. You’ll feel more frustrated and angry at what’s happening.

6. Expectations to Always be Strong

Stereotypically, men are supposed to be the stronger figure. It’s precisely because of this notion that many men try to act tough when they’re actually in pain and need help. Trying to maintain that image of strength and stability can force you to bottle your feelings inside and suddenly burst into rage when you can’t take it anymore. 

7. No One Advocates for Them

From the LGBTQ+ community to the women’s Me Too movement, everyone seems to be supported today, with the exception of men. So when you feel cornered, and everything just gets too much, you begin to feel like no one appreciates your efforts. The feeling that no one advocates for you will make you feel more alone and mad at the world. 

8. Depression

Depression may often be defined as overwhelming sadness and melancholy. For some, though, it can manifest in the form of bouts of rage and mood swings.

9. Country’s Awful Economic Setup

Today’s economic status is horrible compared to when boomers grew up. Prices are high, but salaries are not keeping up with your expenses. In the end, you grind and hustle in life, but all your hard work seems to be fruitless. You can’t help but live paycheck to paycheck and struggle daily to keep up with the bills. 

10. Residue of the Horrors during the Pandemic

The pandemic brought so much horror to everyone. Whether it was the year of isolation or the limitations for physical contact, people, specifically men, have become angry about everything. You were forced to stay at home when you’re used to staying out in the office. This alone can enrage you like no other. 

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