This post first appeared on the blog of Ms. FOGA over at From One Geek To Another. I talk about why I love living in 160 square feet (around 15 square meters. Thank you Ms. FOGA, for this amazing opportunity. I hope you enjoy reading the article!
Hi friends, Iโm Radical FIRE and Iโm excited to talk about my shared apartment life.
Full disclosure: I have never lived in an entire apartment without roommates. When I started studying I shared my apartment with three others. I was moving out when I finished studying, convinced that I would try to find a small apartment for just myself.
Things changed when I started working back in April 2018. I was living with my parents after I returned from my four-month trip to South America, looking for a job. As soon as I found one, I would be looking for an apartment. However, the job that I found was over 100 km (65 miles) away from my parentsโ house. That would be okay. Due to traffic, it would take me over 2 hours one way. I was exhausted, and I decided that I was done with this situation. Within a week, I found a shared apartment, where I live again with three others.
Meaning that I have lived in a shared apartment for all of my life.
While I enjoy sharing the apartment most days, some days, I really wish I could have my own apartment. I love to chat with my roommates, cook with them, or have drinks with them. I donโt like when I have to actively ignore other peopleโs mess (no, I donโt clean it up for them), there are no clean plates left, or my bread mysteriously disappears. There are pros and cons of living in a shared apartment, and if youโve lived with flatmates, you know what Iโm talking about here.
Today I want to talk to you about how living in a 160 square feet apartment has benefited me financially. You donโt need to live in a 1500 square foot apartment to feel happy. Here are my reasons why I live in a 160 square feet apartment and enjoy it.
1. Itโs Cheap
Obviously, living in a 160 square feet room and sharing all facilities is cheap. I live in a city, reasonably close to the city center, and I pay $310 rent, including utilities and WIFI. Thatโs insanely cheap compared with would you would pay for a 1000 square foot apartment.
Ms. FOGA: This is crazy inexpensive. Nothing in my area is under $1000 a month if we are including utilities and internet.
When I went looking for an apartment in the city I live in now, the prices started around $1000 per month for an apartment that was far from ideal. It was not close to the city center, it was in a terrible neighborhood, or there were no facilities nearby. Call me spoiled, but Iโve always lived in the city center close to supermarkets and other facilities like bars and restaurants.
I was extremely happy when I ran into the apartment I live in now, which met all my demands and was extremely cheap.
2. Strive For Your Financial Goals
When I first learned about FIRE and the benefits that it could give me, I noticed that living in a cheap apartment already put me one step ahead in the game.
Whatever your financial goals are, you can achieve them by living in a smaller apartment and by paying less rent. You can start building your emergency fund, pay off your debt, strive for financial independence or early retirement.
Ms. FOGA: Living in our old apartment definitely allowed us to make some serious headway on saving for our down payment and eliminating debt. Would highly recommend it.
There are all these kinds of financial goals that you would LOVE to achieve, but somehow, you donโt. Living in a smaller place can be a good start to saving more.
3. You Decrease Your Wants
Moving is always a lot of work and to be honest, I hate it. Luckily when youโre moving from or to a small(er) house, you donโt have to move as much stuff.
When I left my other apartment to travel, I sold all my furniture to the next tenant. The only thing I took was my bed. When I came into my new apartment, I had only my bed to fill my room. Quickly I got a table and a few chairs from my grandma and a secondhand closet. Thatโs it.
When you donโt have too much space, you donโt feel the need to fill it with all this stuff. You donโt feel the need to buy all these new things to make your apartment cozy. Because letโs be honest, when you live in a 160 square feet room, itโs already cozy no matter what.
In the personal finance space, there is this continuous discussion about needs and wants. People think an awful lot of things are needed when they actually want. If you live in a single room itโs easy; you donโt need a lot. You might want it, but itโs not even an option because of space.
After some time, you realize that you donโt need as much as you thought you needed. Itโs perfect just the way it is now. When you realize that your needs were really wanted, thatโs when you can decrease your wants and be happy with the things you have.
I realized that having a lot of clothing options was a want. I had only one closet, so I had to make use of it effectively. When I read why successful people wear the same clothes every day, I began decluttering and downsizing.
4. You Live Lighter
When you have decreased your wants, this will shine through every aspect of your life. You donโt need that fancy car, entertainment budget, big wedding, fill in the blank. Because you know you can do it without that.
Your life becomes simplified, you know the things you value, and you become lighter. You know what makes you happy and what fills your cup. So, you do more of what makes you happy and less of what doesnโt. You donโt have so many of the things that donโt make you happy, the things that used to weigh down on you.
If experiences make you happy, you donโt need to buy more material stuff. You might as well impose a one-year clothing ban because buying more clothes doesnโt make you happy.
If quality things make you happy, you donโt need no buy more stuff. You will buy those beautiful Jimmy Choos, instead of shopping at H&M.
If your family makes you happy, you donโt need to work more. You will spend more time with them, instead of spending more time in your cubicle.
5. It Forces Good Habits
Besides all of that, it forces good habits. It forces you to edit the space, and move things around to make use of the space as efficiently as possible. You stop accumulating things; not buying new things that you donโt want. It forces you to declutter, getting rid of the things that donโt make you happy.
Essentially, the things that I have in my room have a purpose. I have it because I love it, or because I use it. Small living spaces force you to keep it to the things you love and other essentials.
Since Iโve been selling things over the last few years, Iโve come to a realization of how little things I actually need. Not to say that Iโm a complete minimalist, but I know the distinction between my needs and wants perfectly now.
One thing that I still struggle with though is keeping things organized. Iโm coming home and I donโt hang my jacket and put my bag in the middle of the room. I go make dinner, eat it, and donโt clean up my plate. I remember to do laundry and I come back into my room: BAM, itโs a complete mess. Keeping things organized and on top of that is extremely important when youโre living in a small room.
Due to living in my current apartment, I saved around 75% of my income so far this year, which I feel incredibly lucky to do. A lot of it is due to the fact that I was able to keep my rent super low. If this was not the case, I would have saved much less for sure.
If youโre curious about how to save more than half of your income,ย you can read more about it here.
How big is your apartment? Would you be able to live in a smaller apartment?
Founder of Spark Nomad, Radical FIRE, Journalist
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Education: Bachelor of Economics at Radboud University, Master in Finance at Radboud University, Minor in Economics at Chapman University.
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Experience: Marjolein Dilven is a journalist and founder of Radical FIRE, a personal finance platform, and Spark Nomad, a travel platform. Marjolein has a finance and economics background with a masterโs in Finance. She has quit her job to travel the world, documenting her travels on Spark Nomad to help people plan their travels. Marjolein Dilven has written for publications like MSN, Associated Press, CNBC, Town News syndicate, and more.
Wow that is amazing, paying off your house down quickly and now having a small mortgage!
Thanks for your kind words FN!
I lived mainly in shared houses until I was in my early thirties and bought my first house. Although shared living is cheap, as a tidy person I always struggled with other people’s mess and noise. My first house was in a low-cost area and I almost managed to pay off all of the mortgage before buying a house with my partner. Thanks to that we now have a very small mortgage compared to the price of our jointly-owned house.
I truly admire your ability to make radical changes and decisions based on your financial goals.
You set a good example for many people who believe that having your own house, new Iphone and a nice car is the only way to be happy.
– Financial Nordic